How Everyday Situations Become Challenges For Me?

Understanding claustrophobia

Daily Rants
3 min readJun 12, 2024

Many people think of a shower as a place to relax and unwind. For me, it’s different. The small, enclosed space of a shower cabin makes me feel trapped. The walls seem to close in on me, and the limited air makes it hard to breathe. This triggers my claustrophobia, turning what should be a calming experience into a time of stress and anxiety.

It’s not just showers that are a problem. Any small room or space can set off my fear. Elevators, small cars, and even tight clothing can make me feel like I’m stuck with no way out. The fear isn’t just uncomfortable; it can be overwhelming. That’s why I often avoid situations where I might feel confined or closed off from the rest of the world.

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Medical Appointments and Anxiety

Going to the dentist is a nightmare for me. Lying down on the dental chair, unable to move freely, fills me with dread. It feels like I’m locked in place, and this triggers my claustrophobia. The fear makes it hard to stay calm during the appointment, and sometimes I even feel like I need to escape the room just to breathe properly.

To manage this, I often speak with my dentist ahead of time about my claustrophobia. This way, they can help make the experience less stressful. They give me more breaks during the treatment and keep me informed about what they’re doing. Knowing I can ask them to stop if I need to helps a bit. However, the anxiety never really goes away, and medical appointments remain a significant challenge for me.

Sprays and Sounds

When someone sprays something directly onto my face, like rose water or setting spray, it’s more than just uncomfortable. It feels like my airways are being blocked, making it hard to breathe. This sensation triggers panic, as if I’m losing control over my breathing. That’s why I avoid these sprays and prefer to apply products with my hands instead, which feels much safer and more manageable.

Loud noises also cause a lot of stress for me. In a noisy room or a place with loud music, I feel suffocated, as if the noise is physically pressing down on me. It’s overwhelming and makes it hard for me to think or even breathe. To cope with this, I try to stay in quieter environments and use noise-canceling headphones when I can’t avoid noisy places. This helps me manage the sensory overload and keeps my anxiety at bay.

Coping Mechanisms and Seeking Help

Dealing with claustrophobia means finding ways to cope with everyday situations that many people take for granted. One way I manage is by practicing breathing exercises. These help calm me down when I feel trapped or anxious. I also make a point to familiarize myself with exits and open spaces when I’m in new environments. This preparation gives me a sense of control and helps reduce my anxiety.

Besides personal strategies, seeking professional help has been crucial. Talking to a therapist about my claustrophobia has opened up new ways to manage my fears. They’ve taught me relaxation techniques and how to gradually face my fears without overwhelming myself. If you struggle with similar feelings, consider reaching out for professional help. It can make a big difference in handling these challenges and improving your quality of life.

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