Say No To Sex Before Marriage

The case for waiting until marriage

Daily Rants
3 min readJun 5, 2024

From my own life, I’ve learned that having sex before marriage can really complicate things. I faced this reality myself when I got pregnant before I was married. Although I did marry my partner afterwards but I didn’t know I was pregnant at the time we decided to get married. This experience showed me how unpredictable life can be and how premarital intimacy can lead to unexpected situations that might not be easy to manage.

Looking back, I believe it was a mistake to engage in a physical relationship before being fully ready for all the possible outcomes. It’s not just about dealing with a pregnancy; it’s also about handling the emotional ups and downs that come with such a close relationship. If I could share a piece of advice, it would be to wait until you’re married, when you’re more likely to be stable and truly prepared for both the joys and the challenges of a physical relationship.

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